I recently stumbled across a few interesting questions some people were asking on Google concerning the romantic lives of lightworkers and I thought I’d write a post address these questions.
Here we go…
Related: What Do Lightworkers Look Like?
Do Lightworkers Have Soulmates?
Lightworkers are here to complete their important Soul missions by waking people up to the true nature of reality while Earth moves into its next incarnation and higher dimension. Then, they go back to where they came from…
Just kiddin’, of course they do! 😀
We all usually incarnate with soulmates. We never, (or very rarely) incarnate entirely alone.
We make intricate pre-birth plans with others who we have known before in order to play out certain roles for mutual learning, growth, and experience.
It’s important to bear in mind that we all have free-will (there are planets that don’t), so we can also change things up as we live out our paths, but some things, very much including meetings with potential spouses, are pre-destined.
Have you ever had an oddly familiar feeling when meting a previous partner for the first time? You probably recognized them from previous times together.
Do Lightworkers Have Twin Flames?
Twin flames differ to soulmates because you share the same Higher Self, also known as the Over-Soul or Superconscious Self.
You are essentially, different expressions of the same Soul. And there are many more people you might know who are other parts of you; or twin flames.
But I know that you’re asking about twin flames in the romantic sense. Fragments of Souls can also incarnate to experience profound and deep love relationships together. The relationships may last a lifetime, or a few years, months or even weeks.
Here, we possess free will and we are capable of molding our realities in the ways that we wish and see fit. Should you choose, for whatever reason, we can separate from someone who we were destined to meet, or become very reclusive and severely delay or prevent the meeting from occurring altogether.
Do Lightworkers Fall in Love?
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I was once told by a highly respected spiritual teacher that we would be better off alone throughout our lives because we would spend more time focusing on raising the planet’s vibrational frequency. Love, marriage, and happiness were just too much of a distraction.
I was absolutely horrified.
They also went on to say that having children creates karma.
I was also very confused because I loved the experience of being in love and being single at the time, I longed for an exciting, long-lasting, mutually fulfilling romantic relationship. I also loved children!
It’s so important to remember that lightworkers are people too.
They have hopes, dreams, feelings, and… desires! They are absolutely capable of falling in love and they absolutely deserve to experience passion, excitement, comfort and all the other wonderful things that a genuine, loving, romantic relationship can bring.
If you’re reading this, you’re almost definitely a lightworker yourself. How do you feel about love? You’ve likely experienced it before — perhaps a few times. It was great (at times, at least!) and if you’re reading this, you probably wish to experience it again.
I want to tell you that you absolutely can and that there is nothing that is stopping you.
Please don’t think for a second that because you may have also incarnated to help the planet raise its frequency at this time that you won’t have the time, or that you shouldn’t focus on romance and relationships, or that you don’t deserve it.
If you haven’t been attracting the most compatible people, or perhaps even abusive people, some energetic healing may be needed to help clear up your vibration. Once you do that you can attract a longer-lasting, far more mutually satisfying relationship.
Do Lightworkers Get Married?
To recap; lightworkers absolutely have soulmates and twin flames, they fall in love and…
…yes, they get married! They also have children (if it’s possible and if they desire it!).
Lightworkers of all kinds; psychics, mediums, energy healers, spiritual teachers, and generally positively polarized people who wished to incarnate on Earth at this time made pre-birth plans — just like everyone else!
Yes, they may have missions here to complete, but they may have also agreed to incarnate simply to enjoy the third dimension and radiate good energy, subconsciously helping to raise the vibration of Earth as it gradually moves into its next incarnation.
The third dimension has so much to offer in terms of experience, duality, learning, and growth. You learn much faster on Earth than you do in Spirit and you can enjoy the food, the animals, the sea, and so much more at the same time!
Don’t let anyone influence your life path in a way that doesn’t feel right or joyous to you. You can — and should, meet your soulmate or twin flame, fall in love, and get married if you desire it.
I really hope this article has helped to answer some of the questions you might have about romance as a lightworker. We all deserve to have good relationships and find love. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.